Why I hate the phrase . . .

“God answered my prayer.”

People only say that when they get the answer they want and/or expect. What about the times when we don’t get the answer we want? Does that mean God didn’t answer it? That he turned a cold shoulder as a way of saying, “What a stupid prayer that was! Don’t waste my time.”

When we ask people for something and they say no, do we run around complaining that they didn’t answer?

No. Instead we say, “He said no.”

Same way with God. He answers all our prayers. Most of the time the answer is no, and that’s a good thing. We don’t always know what’s best for us, but God always does. I can look back at some of my more fervent prayers when God said no, and invariably I find out later he was right.

Instead of telling everyone, “God answered my prayer,” we need to say, “God said yes.” It works the other way as well. Instead of crying to everyone, “God didn’t answer my prayer,” we need to say, “God said no.”

And be thankful for it. God always says no for a reason, even if we won’t know that reason for a while, if ever.

That’s the definition of trust.

Addendum: I actually wrote this four years ago today. The program, I use to write my journal/blog entries sends me automatic notices of past entries I’ve written on today’s date. It’s possible this same entry is on my blog, but I think it deserved a re-post.


A.L. Marquardt

Writer, photographer, wife and mother. Everything else is mere detail.

6 Comments

Cheryl Turtlemoon · April 4, 2018 at 9:35 pm

Great post! Thanks for sharing!

Nisha303 · April 4, 2018 at 11:11 pm

Love this! So true!

    A.L. Marquardt · April 5, 2018 at 6:08 pm

    Thank you! Both for the comment, and taking time to read.

Kavita Sangma · April 5, 2018 at 10:00 am

Ahhh this is great…

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