Another reason why marriages and relationships don’t work nowadays is because of insecurity among couples. They always suspect each other and this has gone to the extent of affecting the love that was between them, thereby destroying their relationships and marriages.
Insecurity is the inability for one to trust his/her partner. This is the incapability of one to believe the partner by this word. Insecurity comes in wherever suspicion is present. Whenever you are suspicious about your partner, you begin to doubt each and every move your partner puts up. You suspect every phone call s/he passes, every place where s/he goes to, the friends s/he hangs out with. These suspicions bring insecurity among couples which is always accompanied by it’s close brother, lack of trust.
Insecurity brings division and disbelief in couples. It makes them unable to trust their partner’s word, always seeking for an opportunity to check into their partner’s private stuff like phone, mails, computer etc. It gives you the hunger for unnecessary explanations like the whereabouts of your partner, the phone calls you dial or receive. Insecurity makes you become a liability to your partner than the other half needed to complete the jigsaw puzzle.
In relationship, love and trust are entwined. You can’t love someone if you can’t trust the person. You should give your partner a blank cheque if you got to succeed in a relationship. You should learn to believe in your partner, for that is one of the virtues of love: trust. Insecurity is nothing but an ideology from the pit of hell that is out to destabilize couples and it is your duty not to allow it ruin the love you gave everything to build. Stop trying to “investigate” on whether s/he is cheating on you or not. Believe him if s/he say they don’t. It is better to believe what they say and later discover it were a lie than to be branding them a liar and you later discover that they was right. It would be so fatal to you. Learn how to trust. Tell them everyday, every minute and second that you trust them. Call them everyday and let them know you trust them. Trust them with all your heart. Don’t be insecure!!! Trust each other. Let love lead you and keep you together for life.