The Number One Need Of A Woman

Many relationships and marriages nowadays end up in a disaster because men have not yet understood and to be clearer, don’t know what a woman’s needs are. They focus on their satisfaction and welfare without knowing that women too have feelings and do need some things.

The number one need of a woman is affection. Affection is not sex. The fact that a man can sex and cum doesn’t necessarily mean that the woman is fulfilled. She needs more than that.

Affection is the application of effects to create an affect. That means it is a series of things you do in order to please a woman. You don’t do them because you like it but you do because she likes it. You should remind yourself that your lady is a car that needs gas and so you take the car to the gas station not because you drink gas but because the car needs it. That’s the same with women; the affection you show her doesn’t necessarily love affection but it’s because your lady needs it, that’s why you do it.

You may ask yourself that what are the things you need to do to show her affection. It is very simple but goes a long way to say about you. Here are they:

– Your lady wants you to call her everyday to tell her how much you love her.

-Your lady wants you to send short love notes to her.

-Your lady wants you to hold her in public places such as malls, restaurants, public gardens, etc.

-Your lady wants you to kiss her in front of your exes.

-Your lady wants you to offer her flowers with short love notes.

-Your lady wants you to give her hugs and cuddles every time you are together.

-Your lady wants you to always keep telling her, you love her.

-Your lady wants you to go shopping, have lunch or tea at some nice corner in town.

These are just the few among the things a lady wants you to do to show her affection. It’s not difficult but many guys tend not to do and that’s why marriages and relationships don’t work; because of self-centered minds. It’s not about you first in a relationship: it’s about her first of all.

Nkwenkam Momekam Tite

I am Nkwenkam Momekam Tite born in October 25 1997 in Heidelberg... I am an author, a blogger n a human rights activist in the Pan African Human Rights Defenders Network...


thereisarham · March 10, 2018 at 2:10 pm

Good article… Liked it

chris ludke · March 10, 2018 at 7:30 pm

That lady sounds like high maintenance.

Debby Cummins · March 11, 2018 at 12:06 am

This is right to the point and Chris Ludke if you think the woman described here is “high maintenance”, then you’ve never loved before.

    E · March 11, 2018 at 12:41 am


unholypursuit · March 11, 2018 at 12:26 am

It doesn’t mean it done on a 24/7 basis. It means set aside time to be romantic and show her that you love her.A relationship is work. The same things it took to get her is the same things it is going to take to keep her.

E · March 11, 2018 at 12:42 am

You last paragraph…<3 You get it!

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