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Second Love

They say, first love never dies, people make it seem like first love is the most important kind of love aside from true love. But people don’t always realize that when first love fails, your second love is the one that heals you. Second love makes you forget all the pains first love has caused you.

Second love has always been taken for granted. People don’t recognize it as much as we should. And people think that second love is a kind of love that can easily be replaced since it has “just” replaced “first love”.

But hey, when you lose that second love of yours, it will haunt your dreams, even after years. You will always miss the feelings he made you feel when you are still together. You’d want to go back to the time he made you feel like you’re the most beautiful girl in the world. You’d always want to run back to him everytime you feel hurt cause that’s what he’s good at; making you feel better. But he is nowhere to be found. He’ll remain in your memory and you’ll always wish you’d one day bump into each other, have a coffee after, catch up, and maybe, just maybe, rekindle your undying romance with him.


TheWriter · November 20, 2017 at 9:57 pm

What about third love? Sadly, first and second love didn’t work out for me.

    jeazelle · November 20, 2017 at 10:30 pm

    The third love is the third try. The third chance. You can try and love as much as you want to until you find your one true love. Just keep on trying, just keep on loving. It will be worth it.

      TheWriter · November 20, 2017 at 10:31 pm

      10 years later, I’ll still be searching lol.

        jeazelle · November 20, 2017 at 11:03 pm

        Lol. I hope you find your true love soon. ❤

        By the way, thank you ❤

          TheWriter · November 20, 2017 at 11:10 pm

          Haha, sure thing.

Ravi S · November 20, 2017 at 11:44 pm

Nice thoughts.

paridoxicaldestinations · November 22, 2017 at 2:37 am

I feel you

mirafahlan · November 23, 2017 at 7:44 pm

So then first love is technically simulation and second love is the real deal coz it does what matters most

    jeazelle · November 24, 2017 at 6:07 pm

    For me, what really matters is the true love. It just happened that second love usually heals the pains the first love caused. It somehow fixes you after all the mess first love caused you.

B. · November 23, 2017 at 7:47 pm

I think that we meet one or two very important persons in our life. The fact love strikes, but the most meaningful stories are the ones that made big changes in our life and mindset. Being first or second is just a question of maths…

    mirafahlan · November 24, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    Exact (:

    jeazelle · November 24, 2017 at 6:15 pm

    We meet as many people as we need in order for us to learn what we have to learn. 🙂 and I agree that the most meaningful ones are the ones that made impact on us. ❤

      B. · November 24, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      Totally agreed !

        jeazelle · November 25, 2017 at 10:41 am


          B. · November 25, 2017 at 1:32 pm

bernadette · November 23, 2017 at 7:48 pm

let’s try self love.

    jeazelle · November 24, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    That is a beautiful form of love too.

B. · November 23, 2017 at 7:55 pm

*the first love

Von Smith

Von Smith · February 9, 2018 at 8:17 pm

How many stages of growth and maturity can we identify? Each stage shows us things we could not know before. Such is love, children, adolescents, your adults, mature adults, mothers , fathers, babies, seniors, all have different abilities and needs. I never talked to any knowledgeable people about the distinctions of love before I got married at age 19. Sixteen years later, I found out what marriage without love can be.

I questioned the love portrayed in films and books. I had never felt that complete connection before. My concept of love was heavily weighted towards pleasing, supporting, and lust. Then I met my second wife; I experienced the awesome power of love that I still feel today, 37 years later. I hope the generational delay in marriage and children yields more mature, complete loves beyond the obvious sexual relationships.

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