What to do when you get friendzoned?

1.       Continue being friends with him. Talk to him casually. Talk about anything under the sun but don’t talk about your feelings anymore. You shouldn’t make him feel guilty just because he cannot reciprocate your feelings. Nobody deserves that.

2.       Don’t bug him with your messages. Wait for him talk to you first, and when he does, don’t show how excited you are. Because we know that you, yes, YOU are very much excited to talk to him or her, who wouldn’t be? But if you show too much excitement, you might get disappointed again. And there’s a higher chance things will get awkward. Let’s keep ourselves from inflicting any more pain.

3.       Open up. Try to talk to other people. Don’t flirt. Just be friendly. We don’t want the impression that we are not serious about him, but we don’t want them to think that our lives revolve around them.

4.       Deal with it like a matured man or woman that you are! You guys are still friends, at least! Be contented with friendship. Just enjoy your friendship. After few years, things will change, who knows, he might fall in love with you too, or you fall out of it, but one thing for certain, something will change but you still got each other even just as friends. 


16 Comments

B. · November 21, 2017 at 11:04 am

All true but so hard to put into practice….

    jeazelle · November 21, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    I’ve been through that. And still going through after a year..

Yuvraj Chaudhary · November 21, 2017 at 11:41 am

It sounds easy 😉

    jeazelle · November 21, 2017 at 2:44 pm

    Lol.. I know how that feels.. Been in that situation and currently still there.. I’m doing my own tips too.

olivera77 · November 21, 2017 at 12:04 pm

I would agree with B. “All true but so hard to put in practice…” More often your emotions get the best of you and instead of reacting calmly, or just being yourself, you over react and it all backfires. But that is love, it takes its own course … it is rarely like a ship you can steer in to calm waters.

    jeazelle · November 21, 2017 at 2:56 pm

    I agree with you that it’s hard. I’ve been through that and still going through. It takes a lot of self control.

gingerschnaps · November 21, 2017 at 12:15 pm

Life’s a long and winding road. You never know what might happen. You might eventually end up with him/her or you might end up with someone else. Just be happy if they stay and be grateful that you met someone like them.

cinlorac · November 21, 2017 at 9:24 pm

Perfectly described steps! but very difficult to follow in reality.

    jeazelle · November 22, 2017 at 6:15 am

    Thank you.. And I agree that it can be quite hard.. I had to follow them myself, I needed full control..

      cinlorac · November 22, 2017 at 12:44 pm

      Yeah, when the person is someone very important in your life, you tend to try your hardest to not mess up. 🙂

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